Bittersweet

Bittersweet

Bittersweet is a blend of emotions that seem contradictory, like happiness and sadness, but we experience together.

More about this emotion

(A study by Larsen et al. (2001) found that participants exposed to mixed stimuli, like poignant movie scenes, reported experiencing happiness and sadness concurrently, illustrating that contradictory emotions can in fact coexist.)

For example, a parent might feel bittersweet watching their child graduate, proud of their achievement yet saddened by the child growing up and moving on.

Bittersweet emotions often involve reflections on time—past, present, and future. Events such as reunions, farewells, or milestones can trigger a heightened awareness of life's transience, evoking a mix of gratitude and melancholy.

People experiencing bittersweet emotions often feel a sense of connection to something larger than themselves, such as cultural traditions, relationships, or universal human experiences.

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Sources and other readings

Living with Bittersweet Emotions

I. Berns-Zare

Living with Bittersweet Emotions

I. Berns-Zare

Atlas of the heart

B. Brown

Atlas of the heart

B. Brown

Embracing the bittersweet

S. Cain

Embracing the bittersweet

S. Cain

Why bittersweet emotions underscore life’s beauty

S. Cain

Why bittersweet emotions underscore life’s beauty

S. Cain

Quotes

The bittersweet is also about the recognition that light and dark, birth and death—bitter and sweet—are forever paired. “Days of honey, days of onion,” as an Arabic proverb puts it.

S. Cain

The bittersweet is also about the recognition that light and dark, birth and death—bitter and sweet—are forever paired. “Days of honey, days of onion,” as an Arabic proverb puts it.

S. Cain

The famous saudade of the Portuguese is a vague and constant desire for something that does not and probably cannot exist, for something other than the present, a turning towards the past or towards the future; not an active discontent or poignant sadness but an indolent dreaming wistfulness

A. Fitz Gerald Bell

The famous saudade of the Portuguese is a vague and constant desire for something that does not and probably cannot exist, for something other than the present, a turning towards the past or towards the future; not an active discontent or poignant sadness but an indolent dreaming wistfulness

A. Fitz Gerald Bell

A pleasure you suffer, an ailment you enjoy.

M. de Melo

A pleasure you suffer, an ailment you enjoy.

M. de Melo